Before You Knew, You Felt

A remembering for the body, the soul, and the quiet truth between them
There are some moments you can’t explain.
Not because they’re complicated, but because they’re felt before they’re understood.
A glance.
A presence.
A quiet spark that doesn't speak in words, but in resonance.
Like your soul suddenly leans forward, alert.
Like your breath slows, and something inside says, “Pay attention.”
You might not know their name.
Or maybe you pass them in the hallway at work.
Maybe it’s someone whose presence lingers in your mind, even if your conversations have been brief.
You might not know why your chest feels lighter when they’re near.
But your body remembers.
And sometimes, remembrance doesn’t come with reason.
It comes with recognition.
The Body Speaks First
Long before the mind catches up, the body already knows.
It senses alignment, safety, familiarity - even when nothing makes sense yet.
You might feel calm and energized at the same time,
as if you’ve stepped into a version of yourself that had been waiting to be remembered.
Your thoughts may stumble, but your senses bloom.
This is the body’s way of whispering, “I’ve been here before.”
But when you don’t honor the feeling - when you dismiss what the body knows -
your soul can become restless.
Because even if your mind isn’t ready, your energy still pulls toward what it knows to be true.
Something deeper than thought.
Something beyond your senses, but undeniably real.
When Energy Meets Energy
Some people bring out a version of you that’s more alive than you’ve ever been.
Not because they try to, but because your energies, when near each other, amplify.
It’s not just chemistry.
It’s coherence.
A magnetic field that settles your nervous system while awakening your soul.
You’ve probably felt this.
I know I have.
The way someone enters your fields - not loud, not disruptive, but undeniable.
Your chest softens.
Your posture changes.
And even if your mind says “stay grounded,”
something in you rises to attention and whispers, “You’ve met them before.”
You didn’t plan it.
But your body knew.
People often describe the feeling as butterflies.
But what if it’s more than that?
What if it’s your soul beginning to dance -
to a tune you don’t quite understand, but instinctively know?
It’s almost as if your internal energy, without knowing,
is reaching out.
Longing to connect on a level beyond understanding.
A soul reaching for another not with words,
but with frequency.
Not All Sparks Are Sacred
There’s something I’ve learned - sometimes the hard way.
Not every connection that feels intense is healthy.
There’s a difference between true resonance and trauma bonding.
And I’ve felt both.
Trauma bonding can mimic the same familiarity.
It feels urgent. Consuming.
But it’s your soul searching for comfort in unthinkable places.
True resonance feels different.
It breathes with you.
It expands your awareness without asking for pieces of you in return.
You’ll feel the difference when you’re connected to yourself.
That’s the key.
Because when you’re grounded, present, and honest, you’ll know:
One feels like a storm.
The other feels like a living organism -
breathing with you, not through you.
To Honor, Without Holding
You don’t have to label it.
You don’t have to act on it.
You don’t have to make it make sense.
But you can honor it.
You can thank your body for feeling what it feels.
You can soften into the warmth, the stillness, the knowing - without needing a conclusion.
Because what if presence is the point?
What if these soul-aligned moments aren’t meant to become stories,
but reminders.
That you’re alive.
That you can feel.
That something in you still recognizes truth without needing proof.
Not all connections are meant to become relationships.
Some arrive just to awaken.
Some remind you that you can feel this deeply -
even if the feeling isn’t mirrored back.
That doesn’t make it less sacred.
It means it served its purpose.
And still… some connections are so strong, so unmistakable,
that no matter how gently you try to place them aside,
they stay with you.
Not as obsession.
But as a hum beneath the surface -
a resonance that continues to echo long after the moment has passed.
You’re not here to be chosen by every soul you recognize.
You’re here to remember what your own soul is capable of sensing.
And when that connection exists within boundaries -
especially when someone has already chosen their path -
the most loving thing you can do is honor it in silence.
To feel without grasping.
To respect without explanation.
To carry the connection like a candle.
Not to light a path forward,
but simply to acknowledge that it glows in you.
A Life That Listens
These days, I process energy differently.
I make space to feel - not just scroll.
I step away from electronics.
I reconnect with the Earth.
I ground myself.
And in that stillness, I let my body speak.
Because its wisdom has never once steered me wrong.
A Quiet Ending
And maybe, if you're still thinking of someone long after the moment has passed,
it's not because you're holding on.
It's because something in you was moved.
And maybe, that was the whole point.
Final Whisper
Some souls don’t arrive with explanations.
They arrive with recognition.
Not through logic, but through the way your chest softens,
the way your breath deepens,
the way your body says, you’ve met before.
You don’t have to understand it.
You just have to honor the feeling.
🕊️ Whisper of Tomorrow
Tomorrow’s blog will explore the energy we release every time we speak.
The quiet spells we cast through our words -
and the realities we shape without even realizing it.
The title?
What You Speak, You Become
Come back tomorrow.
Your voice is more powerful than you’ve been taught.
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We’re building something sacred here, one whisper, one breath, one moment at a time.