Follow Friday: Following the Pace That Protects Your Purpose

Happy Friday, beautiful souls.

We say we want to follow Jesus, but let's be honest - we get frustrated when He doesn't move at our speed. We want Him to bless the sprint, but He keeps inviting us to the walk.

This week, we talked about The Grace of the Slow Start on Monday Morning Grace - that permission to ease into December without the pressure to sprint out of the gate. Today, I want to take that a step further and ask a question that might make you uncomfortable:

Are you following Jesus, or are you just asking Him to keep up with you?

There's a difference. A big one. And the space between those two realities determines whether you're walking in alignment or running yourself into exhaustion while calling it "obedience."

Following vs. Leading in Disguise

We wake up, make our plans, fill our calendars, set our goals - then we pray and ask God to bless it all. We create the roadmap and invite Him to ride shotgun. We decide the destination and ask Him to make the journey smooth.

That's not following. That's asking Jesus to endorse your agenda.

Real following looks like this: "God, what's mine to do today?" Not, "God, bless everything I already decided to do today."

Remember that "Mine vs. God's" exercise from Monday Morning Grace? The one where you separated what you can control from what only God can? That practice wasn't just about releasing anxiety - it was about learning the posture of a follower.

Followers don't write the itinerary. They ask, "Where are we going?" and then they walk.

And here's the part that makes us squirm: sometimes Jesus doesn't tell us the full plan. Sometimes He just says, "This way. One step. Trust Me."

That requires a level of surrender most of us aren't comfortable with. Because surrender feels like loss of control. And we've been taught that losing control means falling behind.

But what if God's pace isn't slower than yours? What if it's just different - and that difference is what protects your purpose?

The Pace That Protects

There's a reason Jesus walked everywhere. He didn't sprint from miracle to miracle. He didn't rush from town to town trying to "maximize impact." He moved with intention, with rhythm, with divine timing.

And in that pace, He never missed a divine appointment. He was never late. He was never too early. He was always exactly where He needed to be, when He needed to be there.

That's the kind of pace I'm talking about - the one that protects your purpose by keeping you in alignment with God's timing instead of the world's urgency.

When you follow at God's pace:

• You don't burn out chasing opportunities that were never meant for you
• You don't arrive at doors before they're ready to open
• You don't exhaust yourself proving something God never asked you to prove
• You don't expose yourself prematurely to things you're not yet equipped to carry
• You don't miss the divine appointments hidden in the "detours"

God's pace protects you from premature exposure, misaligned connections, and opportunities that look good but would cost you your peace.

This is what we explored in Follow Friday: Following Jesus at Your Own Pace - but today, I want you to see that "your own pace" isn't about comfort. It's about obedience. It's about matching your rhythm to His, not to the world's expectations or even your own ambitions.

When Following Feels Like Falling Behind - Here's where it gets real:

You scroll through social media and see people launching, building, announcing, celebrating. Everyone seems to be moving faster than you. Everyone seems to have clarity you don't have. Everyone seems to be ten steps ahead.

And you start to wonder if you heard God wrong. If maybe you're being too cautious. If perhaps you're using "divine timing" as an excuse for fear or laziness.

We talked about this lie in Truth Telling Tuesday: The Lie I Told Myself About Being Lazy - that toxic belief that stillness equals stagnation, that waiting equals wasting time.

But let me remind you of something we explored in The Midweek Mirror: What You Rehearse Becomes What You Believe. If you keep rehearsing the narrative that you're "behind," you'll live like you're behind. You'll make decisions from a place of panic instead of peace. You'll force doors that were never meant for you just to feel like you're "catching up."

Comparison will always make you feel like you're falling behind, because you're measuring your pace against someone else's assignment.

Their pace has nothing to do with yours. Their open door doesn't mean you missed yours. Their announcement doesn't mean you're late.

Jesus spent 30 years preparing for 3 years of ministry. Thirty years. In a culture that would have called that "falling behind," Jesus was walking in perfect obedience to the Father's timing.

You are not behind. You are being prepared. And preparation isn't passive - it's the most active form of trust.

Scripture: The Voices That Remind Us to Follow

Let these words anchor you back to the truth when the world tries to rush you:

"My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me."
John 10:27

You can't follow His voice if you're running ahead of it. Slow down enough to hear Him.

"He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name's sake."
Psalm 23:2-3

Notice the pace here: lying down, quiet waters, refreshing. God's not rushing you. He's guiding you.

"Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, 'This is the way; walk in it.'"
Isaiah 30:21

The voice is behind you - meaning you're not supposed to be ten steps ahead trying to figure it out on your own. You're supposed to listen, pause, and walk when He says walk.

"In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps."
Proverbs 16:9

You can plan. But let God establish. That means surrendering the timeline, the method, the outcome. That means following, not leading.

A Friday Practice: let's put Monday's slow start into practice by checking where you're actually following versus where you're leading in disguise.

This isn't about guilt. It's about alignment. It's about noticing where you might be asking Jesus to bless your plan instead of asking Him what the plan is.

Here's a simple three-part practice to help you audit your week:

1. Morning Check-In: "What's Mine Today?"

Before you open your planner, your email, or your to-do list, take five minutes to sit in stillness and ask God one question:

"What's mine to do today?"

Not what's urgent. Not what everyone expects. Not what looks productive. What's aligned.

Write down what comes to you - even if it's something small like "rest," "send that text," or "let that thing go." Honor it. That's your one faithful step for the day.

2. Midday Pause: "Am I Following or Running Ahead?"

Set a timer for midday - lunch, a break, whenever you can pause. Ask yourself:

"Am I following His lead today, or am I asking Him to keep up with me?"

Be honest. If you realize you've been running ahead, don't shame yourself. Just adjust. Whisper a quick prayer: "Jesus, I got ahead of You. Show me how to get back in step."

Then look at your afternoon. What can you release? What can you slow down? What needs to wait?

3. Evening Reflection: "Where Did I Feel His Pace?"

Before bed, journal or mentally review your day. Ask:

"Where did I feel God's pace today? Where did I resist it?"

This isn't about perfection. It's about awareness. The more you notice the difference between His pace and yours, the easier it becomes to follow.

Write down one moment where you felt aligned, even if it was just for five minutes. Celebrate that. Let it build your faith that you can do this - that you can follow without needing to see the whole path.

This practice builds on everything we've been exploring this week. It takes the "Mine vs. God's" exercise from Monday and turns it into a daily rhythm. It addresses the comparison trap from Wednesday. It honors the slow start we talked about at the beginning of the week.

And over time, this practice rewires you. It teaches your nervous system that following doesn't mean falling behind. It trains you to trust God's timing over your urgency.

The Reflection

So here's your question for today:

Where have you been asking Jesus to keep up with you instead of following His lead?

Maybe it's in your business. Maybe it's in your healing journey. Maybe it's in a relationship or a decision you're trying to force.

Wherever it is, this is your invitation to slow down, to release the timeline, to stop leading in disguise and start actually following.

Because following isn't passive. Following is the most active form of faith. It requires constant listening, constant surrender, constant willingness to pivot.

And when you follow at His pace, you don't fall behind. You fall into alignment. And alignment always leads you exactly where you need to be.

The Invitation

As we close out this week, I want to remind you: the slow start we talked about on Monday wasn't just for Monday. It was for the whole week. The whole month. The whole journey.

You don't have to figure out December by tomorrow. You don't have to have your whole year mapped out before January 1st. You just need to be faithful with today.

Ask Him what's yours. Do that one thing. Release the rest. And trust that His pace is protecting something in you that your speed would destroy.

The Grace: Today, let your pace match His. Let your obedience outweigh your urgency. You are not behind. You are exactly where you need to be, learning to follow the One who never leads you astray.

Walk well today, beautiful soul.

"Soli Deo Gloria"

With love and sacred rhythm,
Eugene💘

May your journey lead through beautiful fields - places where hope springs, peace grows, and grace always finds you.

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• Tuesday: Truth-Telling Tuesday - authentic reflections on living faith boldly
• Wednesday: The Midweek Mirror - a pause for spiritual reflection and self-compassion
• Thursday: Frequency Thursday - tuning into Your voice amid life's noise
• Friday: Follow Friday - exploring what it means to follow Jesus in everyday moments
• Saturday: Sacred Saturday - rest, reflection, and spiritual practices
• Sunday: Sunday Soul Food - nourishing reflections to ground your week ahead

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May you walk your path at His pace this week, trusting the perfect timing of your journey.

Author | About Eugenia's Thoughts
Eugene is a faith-based writer, business systems strategist, and spiritual coach devoted to uplifting others and helping them rise toward their highest selves. Explore more reflections, healing stories, and spiritual nourishment at EugeniasThoughts.com.